Situationships are unaligned. Mixed signals are unaligned. Casual dating is unaligned. Knowing what you want is aligned. Wanting something real is aligned. Looking for a life partner is aligned.
Situationships are Unaligned.
Serious relationships · Monogamous only
Built for seriousrelationships only.
Aligned is a dating app for people who want a monogamous, long-term relationship — and nothing else.
We don't believe people need more matches. We believe people need better decisions.
Dating apps solved discovery. They never solved the decision. You can match all month and still not know the only things that matter: whether you want the same future, and whether this is worth your time.
72%
of singles want to find a long-term partner within the next yearBumble Global Dating Trends, 2025
44%
say finding a long-term partner is their main reason for using dating appsPew Research Center
78%
of Gen Z users report dating-app burnoutForbes Health
Inside the app
Swiping is anumbers game.This is not that.
Every screen that matters, in the order you'd meet them.
01Matchmaker
Tell Alia who you want. She finds them.
Brief Alia, your AI Matchmaker, the way you'd brief a friend with good taste — “someone thoughtful”, “long-term, no games”, “a bit older”. She searches, and only comes back when she has someone worth the interruption.
A matchmaker who never sleeps, knows your values and learns what actually matters to you
Refine her in plain words any time — or just talk to her, out loud
Her picks arrive in Chats as Alia's Picks — each one introduced with why she thinks you should meet
Brief it like a friend.
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people I found for you
Alia's Picks
3 new
Here are a few people I found for you. Want me to find more, or change who I'm looking for? Just tell me — “someone nearby”, “a bit older”, “more into the outdoors”…
someone who actually wants a family, not someday
Got it — I'll weight that heavily. Two people came back straight away.
Amara3134 alignWants kids in the next few years. Same city, same pace.
Jonas3329 alignClose to his family. Says he'd move for the right person.
Find someone thoughtfulLong-term, no gamesSurprise me today
Ask Alia, or tell me who to find…
✦Long-term, no games
Amara, 3134 alignWants kids in the next few years. Same city, same pace.
Meet Alia.
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Alia
your personal AI
Hi Leah, I'm Alia
The AI that helps you find someone you're truly aligned with. Tell me who you're looking for, or teach me what makes you you.
Talk to Alia
AI Training 64%Find me matches
Ask Alia, or tell me who to find…
🎙️Talk to AliaAlia is listening…
02Find
One whole person at a time.
One whole person at a time, not an infinite scroll. Their face, their words, and how aligned Alia thinks you are — then Pass, Like, Vibe, Invite, or see what aligns. Matched on values, communication style, lifestyle and what you each want from a family.
Everyone here wants the same thing: monogamous, long-term, serious
Every profile photo-verified and screened before it goes live
Alia's Compatibility Check: how aligned you are, and why, in words
One person. All of them.
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Discover♥ 10✦ 3
✦ what aligns
Maya29
6 km away · Verified
I'll know it's going well when we're still talking at 2am.
Ask Maya out.
Pick a day, a time, a place. Tell them why it's worth saying yes.
Discover
✦31 align
✓6 km away · Verified
A score, with its reasons.
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Alia's Compatibility Check
You and Maya
31 align4 don't
What aligns
You both want children, and neither of you wants to rush it.
Same read on money: split it, talk about it, never keep score.
You both go quiet in an argument and come back an hour later.
What doesn't
She'd relocate for the right person. You've said you wouldn't leave the city.
You want a big wedding. She'd elope tomorrow.
Written from what you've each told your AI — never inferred.
31 align · 4 don't
✓You both want children, and neither of you wants to rush it.
03Vibe Check
Talk to their AI before you talk to them.
This is the part no other app has. Every member trains a personal AI on how they think, what they want and what they will not compromise on. Before you match, you can sit down with it and ask the questions that actually decide things.
Skip the small talk — ask about kids, faith, money, family, moving, on day one
It answers in their voice, from what they've actually told it, and never invents
No pressure and nothing riding on it until you both decide there is
Ask their AI anything.
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Maya's AI
AI persona · she can see this
Vibing
ok so what's your actual read on long distance
Honestly? It works if both people are bad at pretending things are fine.
She'd rather have the awkward conversation early.
that's a very specific answer for an AI
She told me that one directly. I only say what she's actually told me.
fair. what's she like on a bad day
Quiet, then very funny about it roughly an hour later.
does she want kids
I don't actually know that one — she hasn't told me. I've flagged it so she can answer it herself.
Added to unanswered questions
Maya will be asked this — and everyone who wanted to know gets the answer.
What are you looking for?How do you spend your weekends?Perfect first date?
Message Maya's AI…
ok so what's your actual read on long distance
✦Added to unanswered questions
It never makes it up.
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Unanswered questions
Things people asked I didn't know.
Answer once and everyone who asked gets it.
Does she want kids?
4 askedAnswer →
How does she feel about moving cities?
2 askedAnswer →
Never invented
Your AI only ever repeats what you've actually told it.
✓Never invented
Does she want kids?4 asked
04Open Date
Someone planned the date. You just have to show up.
Not “hey”. Not three weeks of texting that goes nowhere. A day, a time, a place, and a reason it's worth saying yes — the way you'd actually ask someone out if you meant it.
A structured invitation: when, what time, where, and why they should say yes
Post when you're free and see who else is — the board is called Open Dates for a reason
Both of you know what this is. No mixed signals, no “what are we?”
Ask them out properly.
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An invitation
You are asking
Maya out.
Be specific. Be a little brave. Tell them why this matters.
01When
Thu12Fri13Sat14Sun15
02At what time
6:00pm7:30pm8:00pm9:00pm
03Where
A natural wine bar
04Why they should say yes
You mentioned you'd never had orange wine. Let's fix that.
Send the invitation
◷Thu 12 · 7:30pm
✓Invite sent
See who's free this week.
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Open dates
Who's free
14 people are free this week
Thu12Fri13Sat14Sun15
Amara31Thu pmSomething with a walk in it.
Jonas33FriWine bar, early. Work in the morning.
Noor29SatThat new place by the market.
I'm free…
14 people are free this week
Amara, 31Thu pmSomething with a walk in it.
AI Vibe Check
Curious beforecommitting?
Before you invest your time.
Before you plan a date.
Before you get emotionally attached.
Ask their AI.
Find out if you actually align.
By the time you match, you already know the answers that usually take a season to find out.
Recording0:14
“I'd never move away from my parents.”
✓Saved to your AI, in your words
01
You train it, in your own words.
Talk or type to Alia. How you think, how you argue, what you want from a family, what you'd never compromise on. Your AI only ever knows what you've told her.
You → Maya's AI
do you want kids?
how close is your family?
would you relocate?
No pressure. Nothing riding on it yet.
02
They ask it anything.
Skip the small talk. Ask what really matters — kids, faith, money, family, moving — with no pressure on either of you and nothing riding on it yet.
does she want a big wedding?
She hasn't told me that. I won't guess.
✦Sent to Maya to answerAsked by 3 people
03
It never makes anything up.
When it doesn't know, it says so. The question comes back to you, deduped across everyone who asked, and your answer goes to all of them.
✦
Mark a fact private and it detaches from what your AI can say — not hidden from view, actually removed.
What you actually get
A score, and thereading behind it.
Alia gives you a number. Then she shows her working. What aligns between you and what doesn't, written out, so you can decide like an adult.
You and Maya
Alia's Compatibility Check
Most compatible31 align · 4 don't
🎯
Relationship goals
Perfectly aligned
✓Both looking for a life partner
✓Both want children — neither is in a rush
💎
Core values
Strongly aligned
You both rank these highly
Family
Honesty
Loyalty
Faith
💗
Emotional compatibility
Perfectly aligned
Perfectly aligned.
✓Both are ready for something serious
✓Neither is rushing into a relationship
💡Why it matters You're both in a similar place emotionally — neither rushing, neither holding back.
🕊️
When disagreements happen
In sync
✓You both go quiet, then come back and talk it through
💡Why it matters You handle friction the same way — that tends to make repair quick.
💬
Communication
Strongly aligned
You both prefer
✓Talking things through in person
✓Honest, even when it's awkward
✓A call over a long text
🌿
Lifestyle
Mostly aligned
✓Neither smokes
✓Both are early risers
✓Similar activity levels
Difference
Different social energy — your weekends are quiet, Maya's are people-heavy
🏡
Family & future
Mostly aligned
✓Both want kids
✓Family nearby matters to both of you
Difference
Maya would relocate for the right person — you'd stay in the city
❤️
Love languages
Aligned
You both value
✓Quality time
✓Words of affirmation
🎨
Interests
Aligned
You both enjoy
Food & drink
Natural wine
Cooking
Outdoors
Hiking
Sea swimming
🚩
Worth talking about
A few to discuss
Not dealbreakers — just things to bring up early with Maya.
!Where you'd each want to live long-term
!A big wedding, or eloping tomorrow
Written from what you've each told your AI — never inferred, never invented. The four that don't align are the ones most couples find out in month three.
What aligns
Where you actually overlap — values, pace, how you each handle conflict — in sentences, not stars.
What doesn't
Named, not buried. The deal-breaker you'd have found in month three arrives before you've spent the month.
Vibing / Vibed You
Two lists: who you're feeling out, and who's feeling you out.
The stance
One person.That's the whole idea.
Aligned is built for monogamous, long-term relationships and marriage. One relationship structure, so everyone here shares the same expectations and the matching can actually mean something.
We deeply respect all relationship styles, but at this time, Aligned supports monogamous relationships only.
01
Serious only.
Everyone here is looking for the same thing. No “just seeing what's out there”, no situationships by default.
02
Monogamous only.
One relationship structure across the whole platform — which is exactly why the compatibility reading is worth reading.
03
Real people only.
A guided selfie check confirms the person in the photos is the person holding the phone. Every photo screened before it goes live.
In their words
People are done withthe other apps.
Voice notes and messages from early access — tap play on a voice note to hear it through.
⚑Sample layout — real member voices replace these before launch.
Sample story
AI Vibe Check
“I asked about kids on night one.”
0:13
Honestly? I asked her AI if she wanted kids on the very first night. On any other app that question costs you three weeks and a really awkward dinner.
“
Sample story
Early access
“I stopped opening it out of boredom.”
Which is the nicest thing I can say about a dating app. I open it when there's someone worth opening it for.
Sample story
Open Date
“There was something to say yes to.”
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The invite had a day, a time and a wine bar I actually knew. I said yes because, for once, there was something to say yes to.
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Sample story
The reading
“It told me what we didn't share.”
The reading named the things we didn't have in common. That saved me a very long month.
Sample story
Your AI
“That's when I trusted it.”
0:10
It told me it didn't know something about him instead of guessing. That was the moment I trusted the whole thing.
“
Sample story
AI Matchmaker
“Both were worth the coffee.”
I briefed my matchmaker on a Sunday. By Thursday she'd come back with two people, and both were worth the coffee.
“
Sample story
Serious only
“Nobody's just seeing what's out there.”
Everyone here wants the same thing. You can feel the difference in the very first message.
Safety
Meeting someone newshould feel safer than this.
Photo verification, automated screening on every profile photo, confidential reporting, and blocking that works in both directions.
Verified profiles
A guided selfie check confirms the person in the photos is the person holding the phone.
Screened photos
Every profile photo is checked for explicit and violent content before it goes live.
Report and block
Confidential reports reviewed by people. Blocking is immediate and mutual.
Hidden contacts
Never see people you know. Only SHA-256 hashes leave your device.
The short answers. If yours isn't here, pre-register and ask us — a person reads every reply.
01What is Aligned?
A dating app built for one outcome: a monogamous, long-term relationship. You get Alia, an AI matchmaker who searches for you; an AI Vibe Check that lets you talk to someone's AI before you match; and Open Dates — structured invitations with a day, a time, a place and a reason.
02Who is Alia?
Alia is the AI inside Aligned — your personal AI for finding the right relationship. She asks you the questions, remembers what you tell her (you can read, edit or delete any of it), searches for people who fit, and introduces each one with why she thinks you should meet. You can type to her or talk to her out loud.
03Who is Aligned for?
Adults (18+) who want a monogamous, long-term relationship — and are ready to say so. Everyone on Aligned is looking for the same thing, which is what makes the matching worth anything.
04What is an AI Vibe Check?
Every member trains a personal AI on how they think, what they want, and what they won't compromise on. Before you match with someone, you can talk to theirs and ask the questions that actually decide things — children, faith, money, family, relocating. It answers in their voice from what they've told it. Nothing is riding on it until you both decide there is.
05Does the AI make things up about me?
No. It can only repeat what you've actually told it. When someone asks it something it doesn't know, it says so and captures the question for you — deduped across everyone who asked — so you can answer it yourself. Mark a fact private and it detaches entirely from what your AI can say.
06Can I see and delete what my AI knows about me?
Yes. Read, edit or delete anything it knows about you, any time. Mark a fact private and it is removed from what your AI can say — not hidden, actually removed.
07Will I see a compatibility score?
Yes — Alia shows how aligned you are as a percentage on each profile. Tap it for Alia's Compatibility Check: what aligns between you and what doesn't, in words. The full reading comes with a paid membership or a compatibility credit.
08Why monogamous only?
Aligned is designed exclusively for people seeking monogamous, long-term relationships and marriage. By focusing on one relationship structure we can do better compatibility matching and everyone shares the same expectations. We deeply respect all relationship styles, but at this time Aligned supports monogamous relationships only.
09How is this different from other dating apps?
Other apps solved discovery — they're very good at showing you people. They never solved the decision. Aligned front-loads the work so that by the time you're talking to someone you already know the things that usually take a season to find out.
10How do you keep people safe?
A guided selfie check confirms the person in the photos is the person holding the phone. Every profile photo is screened for explicit and violent content before it goes live. Reports are confidential and reviewed by people, blocking is immediate and mutual, and hidden contacts never leave your device as anything but a SHA-256 hash.
11What does it cost?
There's a free tier. Paid memberships add more Vibe Chats, more of Alia's Picks each week and the advanced compatibility reading. Prices are set by the App Store at purchase — see the membership section above for what each tier includes.
12When can I download it?
Aligned is opening city by city, slowly and deliberately, on iPhone and Android. Pre-register and you're in the first group we let in — pre-registrations also tell us which cities to open first. You'll get one email, and it won't be marketing.
Pre-register
Get in beforethe doors open.
Aligned opens slowly and deliberately. Pre-register and you're in the first group we let in — or become a founding member and lock in your first year now.
No spam. One email when we open.
Founding member$29/ one year
Pay once. Your first year is covered.
Everything Aligned does, for a year, starting the day we let you in — not the day you pay. If we never launch, you get a full refund.
A full year of Aligned from the day your account opens
Alia, your AI Matchmaker, briefed in your own words
Unlimited AI Vibe Checks before you match
Open Dates, and the written compatibility reading
First group through the door at launch
Full refund any time before launch, no questions.
⚑Test mode — no card is charged. Use Stripe's test card 4242 4242 4242 4242.
Get the app
Your person mightalready be waiting.
Aligned opens city by city on iPhone and Android. Pre-register and you're in the first group through the door.
Amara, 3134 alignWants kids in the next few years. Same city, same pace.
